Before you get divorced, consider making sure you haven’t left any stone unturned. Make sure you have dwelt with the real issues before you give up on your marriage. Couples can get to a place where they stop communicating and assume the other knows where they are. Couples can even get lots of counseling and still not get to the real issues. It begins with communication. Understanding. If two people want it to work, it can work. It takes both to stop blaming each other and to take a good look at themselves and their part of the problem. It’s defining the real issues, learning to communicate about those issues, and finding answers toward hope, forgiveness, healing, and understanding.